Safe guard of Tongue & Good Manner

1. Do not talk carelessly and without thinking. Whenever there is need to talk, talk very reasonable otherwise keep silent.
2. Do not call anybody dishonest or curse anyone, because if he is not so it will return to you.
3. If anyone accuses you or uses indecent language against you, then you can reply him by using the same words. If you exceed then that , it should be a Sin. It is better if you ignore the indecent behavior.
4. Do not talk double facedly
5. Do not talk ill of anyone or listen such talks about others.
6. Never tell a lie or praise anyone in flattery. Do not praise anyone too much even behind his back.
7. Do not back bite. If it is not true, it would be a slander which is a sin.
8. Do not pick a dispute with anyone and try to bolster up your words.
9. Do not laugh too much. It destroys the glare of the face and hardens the heart.
10. If you have talked ill of anyone , get it excused by him. If he is dead, pray for salvation.
11. Do not make false promises.
12. Do not makes jokes that disgrace other people.
13. Do not brag of about your possessions, art, or workmanship
14. Do not repeat or propagate hearsay. It is usually false.
15. Do not talk haltingly nor exaggerate or length your speech. Speak only as so much needed.
    
16. Do not appreciate or be attentive towards one's singing or music.
17. Do not laugh at anyone's ugly face pr imitate bad actions and gestures.
18. If you come to know of someone's defects or faults, cover them and do not make them public.
19. If anyone seeks your advice, give the best and most reasonable advice honestly.
20. It is improper to taunt a sinner. However something can be said as a advice to him.
21. Do not lie upon your belly.
22. Do sit at any place pushing others aside.
23. If anyone comes to meet you, than move a bit to make a room for him. It would be gesture of respect for him
24. Do not try to sit at a prominent place at a gathering, but take a seat where ever available.
25. While sneezing put your palm or handkerchief on the mouth and sneeze softly.